Adoption has profoundly shaped our lives, fostering a deep appreciation for the diverse ways families come together. As a therapist specializing in children and families, Mary has had the privilege of witnessing the beauty and resilience that adoption brings. She supports families navigating their unique journeys, often seeing firsthand the transformative power of love and connection. Her experience nannying for a family who adopted a child enriched her understanding of the emotional nuances involved, allowing her to form a special bond with that child and contribute positively to their early years.

For Tanya, adoption is a cherished family tradition, with adopted family members on both sides enriching her life since childhood. Her grandparents and parents have always celebrated adoption as a meaningful way to build families, instilling in her a sense of gratitude and responsibility to honor those connections. This shared value has not only deepened her understanding of family dynamics but also inspired her to advocate for the importance of inclusive, loving environments for all children. Together, we are committed to promoting the joys of adoption, ensuring that every child feels valued and loved in their forever home.

Mary's strengths really shine in her roles as a partner, friend, and therapist. Her sense of humor brings joy to every gathering, effortlessly lightening the mood and creating a warm atmosphere. Creative by nature, she crafts unique experiences for family and friends, whether it's through fun celebrations or thoughtful gifts. Mary is also deeply committed to social justice, using her skills as a therapist to advocate for underrepresented voices and make sure every child and family feels seen and supported. Her family-oriented spirit drives her to nurture strong connections with loved ones, always prioritizing quality time and shared experiences.

Tanya complements Mary's strengths with her hardworking and organized approach to life. As a natural leader, she takes charge in both her professional and personal projects, ensuring everything runs smoothly. Tanya's active lifestyle inspires those around her to embrace outdoor adventures and healthy living, creating a sense of well-being in her community. Plus, her cooking skills are a huge hit—she loves whipping up delicious meals that bring everyone together. Together, we create a balanced partnership, blending creativity and organization to build a loving home filled with laughter, support, and shared values.

We cherish our family traditions, which reflect our love for connection and celebration. We take great joy in hosting Thanksgiving, Friendsgiving, and Christmas at our home, transforming our space into a warm gathering spot filled with laughter, delicious food, and cherished memories. These celebrations often bring together both friends and family, creating a sense of community that is central to our lives.

Gardening is another beloved tradition, where we work together with Mary's mom to cultivate our backyard space. It's a peaceful activity that fosters collaboration and connection to nature. Meanwhile, house projects with Mary's dad add a touch of creativity and teamwork, turning our home into a reflection of our shared experiences and values.

We also prioritize visits to Tanya's family scattered around the globe—in Switzerland, Arizona, New York, Oregon, and Turks and Caicos—embracing the opportunity to explore new cultures while strengthening family bonds. Animals play a vital role in our family dynamic, with pets being a constant source of joy and companionship. Whether it's a cozy evening at home or an adventure with loved ones, spending quality time with family, friends, and pets is a treasured tradition that enriches our lives and nurtures our sense of belonging.

We live in a welcoming suburb in Wisconsin, just a stone's throw from a vibrant mid-size city known for its excellent school districts. Our ranch home has five spacious bedrooms and three bathrooms, providing plenty of room for family gatherings and creating memories. One of our favorite spots is the cozy movie-watching space in the basement, where we gather for family movie nights, while the sun-filled living room is perfect for relaxing with a good book or playing games.

Our large, fenced-in backyard is a highlight, where we love to grill and play with friends and family during the warmer months. It would be a fantastic space for a play structure and sandbox someday. The space is perfect for outdoor games and barbecues, creating a lively atmosphere for celebrations and everyday fun.

Our community is incredibly family-friendly, with a fantastic library just a short walk away that offers a variety of family programs and kids' activities. We also participate in the annual fall festival alongside Mary's parents, who are passionate volunteers in our community. With a lovely park right on our block and membership at the local public pool, it's easy to envision a bright future for your child in our home, surrounded by laughter and support.

We are excited to share a glimpse of our lives with you. As a couple, we love spending time with our close-knit family and friends, often gathering for game nights filled with laughter and good food. Whether it's board games, holiday celebrations, or backyard grill-outs, our home is always filled with joy.

Mary's parents live 5 minutes from our home, and family traditions play a huge role in our lives. We love hosting and often have friends and family over to celebrate special occasions, share holiday meals and to watch movies. Tanya's family lives all over the world and we deeply value travel--we hope to show your child the world!

Our family is unique in our commitment to fostering a nurturing and adventurous environment. We support each other's passions—Mary loves reading, gardening with her mom and spending time with animals, and Tanya loves crocheting, Legos, running, hiking and doing home projects with Mary's dad.

We have seen firsthand, through close family and friends, how adoption can build the most special family. Our families both deeply value adoption and are so excited to support us and your child on this journey.

Hello!

We're Mary and Tanya, and we are so grateful for the opportunity to write you. We want to take a moment to share a bit about ourselves and our dream of growing our family through adoption. First, we want to express how much we admire the strength and love it takes to consider adoption. This decision is incredibly personal, and we have so much respect for you as you navigate this journey.

We've been together for 9 years, and we are so excited to start building our family. We are committed to building a life full of love, laughter, and learning with a child. Our home is filled with kindness, creativity, and a strong sense of community, and we're so ready to share that with your child. We both deeply value time with family and friends, traveling, reading, and animals, and we can already imagine the joy of watching a child grow, learn, and explore the world around them.

Mary's playful sense of humor will create a joyful and lighthearted environment, where laughter and fun are part of everyday life. We can already envision playful moments filled with silly games and imaginative storytelling. We hope to show your child the world through travel, exploring new places and cultures together, enriching their perspective and fostering a sense of adventure.

Tanya looks forward to teaching your child how to play with Legos, spending sunny afternoons at the park, and hiking through the gorgeous natural areas near our home. Our shared love of music will fill our home with melodies, from family sing-alongs to dance parties in the living room, creating a fun atmosphere that nurtures creativity and self-expression.

We also have two playful cats and a small dog who love to be part of the family fun! Imagine a lively household where the cats chase toys and the dog loves joining in on every playtime adventure. We can't wait for your child to experience the joy of having furry friends who bring laughter and companionship into our lives.

Beyond our home, we are fortunate to have a village of family and friends who are ready to support us and your child. Our neighborhood is full of families, creating a nurturing environment for kids to grow up in. We have a wonderful library that hosts engaging programs, parks where we can play and explore, and a community pool perfect for learning to swim and play. The schools nearby are highly respected, ensuring a solid foundation for education and social growth. Together, we will create a loving and supportive community that embraces your child and encourages them to thrive.

We believe in nurturing a child's individuality, and we hope to create a supportive, open, and loving environment where your child will always feel safe and valued for exactly who they are. We are open to the level of contact?"emails, phone calls, visits?"that you are comfortable with, and we want your child to know their story and the love behind their adoption, no matter what that looks like.

We know this decision isn't easy, and we are so grateful that you're considering us. We would love the chance to talk with you more, answer any questions you might have, and learn about what you hope for your child's future.

Thank you again for considering us. We are sending you all our warmth and hope, and we wish you peace as you make this important choice.

With deep gratitude and respect,

Mary & Tanya